AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he brought me to a swinger party and tried to share me with another guy?
She believed their love was simple, sweet, and secure—a year filled with laughter, shared dreams, and whispered fantasies that felt light and safe.
But when Alex promised a "special date night," she didn’t expect the world she thought she knew to unravel at the doorstep of a stranger's house, where desire and trust collided in ways she never imagined.
Stepping into that charged room, surrounded by unfamiliar faces and unspoken rules, she faced a sudden, dizzying choice between the comfort of what was and the thrilling, frightening unknown.
In that moment, everything they had built together hung in the balance, fragile as a whisper in the night.
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The original poster (OP) experienced a significant breach of trust when her boyfriend planned and took her to a swinger party without her explicit consent, leading to feelings of shock, disrespect, and being blindsided.
Her immediate action was to leave the situation, while the boyfriend continued to attend the event, creating a fundamental conflict between her need for safety and respect and his actions which disregarded her boundaries.
Given the severity of introducing a high-stakes sexual scenario without consent and his subsequent reaction of prioritizing his social standing over her distress, is the OP justified in questioning the entire foundation of trust in the relationship, or is this incident truly just an isolated, albeit major, mistake that can be forgiven and repaired?